When you know its over.....

Welcome to the blog.  I want to challenge every woman out there, to ask the question, "Do You Really Want Him Back?"

Your husband left you and you want advice.  If you consult the (rest of the) internet, you will find 90% of the articles are like the following; "How to Get Him Back", Secrets to Bring Him Home, Get Back with Your Ex, and numerous other tips and tricks to bring back the man who left you.

Do you really have to pursue this man, I know you want to, but do you have to?  You are crying everyday, your life is in shambles.  He possibly left you with bills, children and responsibilities that will go unmet.  Why should you want this man back.

Reason's you want your husband back;

• Your lonely
• You miss the intimacy
• You need his support
• You need his money
• You love him

Do these sound familiar?  Is that enough to try to get him back.  I don't think so.
Let's explore why.

First, why did he leave initially?

That may seem like an important question, at first. This question gets are problems solving instincts in gear.

"Whatever it is, I can fix it"

The only problem is that the question is the least important issue at hand AND your response is the most important issue YOU need to start with.

For more insight on how to curb your desire to fix everything please read my e-book;