Hello. Thank you for stopping by. I was in a roller-coaster marriage with a man who bounced between me and another woman for about 10 years. Each time he left, I would scramble to find ways to get him back and then finally decide it was over and move on. Each time I retracted my energy and pulled myself out of the pain, he would come crawling back admitting he was wrong and professing his love.
After some time the same issues that "caused" him to leave before "caused' him to leave again. This happened numerous times, so many times, I am too embarrassed to say. Until finally he left the last time and I didn't look back.
I wanted to share my story because there is an over abundance websites, blogs and articles about how to get your husband back. I know because I read most of them in search of advice, tips and tricks to win my husband back! Sometimes they work and sometimes they don't.
The question is do you really want it to work? Maybe you are better off if he stays gone? Don't get me wrong, I am a strong proponent of marriage and I wanted to save my marriage more than anything in this world. And that was the problem. I had sacrificed my very soul and self to save my marriage. That is no way to live. I deserved better and so do you.
